This isn’t a phone at all!!!! This here is straight from the heart of a woman that has had her share of headache--YES headache!!!! NO, I'm not an angry woman out to bash men. I'm speaking truth about the men in my life, better yet all our lives. Speaking as a single woman that's been a wife, booty call, other woman (knowing & unknowingly), mistress (unknowingly), best friend, best friend forever, better known by my new, copy written term--"The Sidekick with Benefits."
How do we as women get these labels??? I'm sure a lot of responses to this one. Better yet, how did I allow myself to be the "negative ones?" Well, my ex-husband might be able to answer this one best; however, we will wait on his response--NOT!!!!
The single woman's journey to redemption, one blog at a time!
Day 1 of truth--He is now engaged! Ask me how I feel, especially since I found out not via him, but through a random encounter with her. Had no clue it was her--just minding my business. Then the invite to his surprise B-Day Party-- my look of huh :///--is that a ring? WOW, had no clue!!! Was truly thankful that prior to this encounter I ended the "situation," but that didn't stop the hurt from entering like a flood. I wrote a poem about booty calls with special privileges (it was me) yes, the available booty call with all the benefits--but no commitment by choice?? Yes, It was my call--wasn't it???
Goal 1: Letting go of "that life"--Are you more than a sidekick with benefits???
